Making Good Use of Your Words!

Hope everyone is having a great holiday! As 2009 draws to an end have you thought about how your words have affected people throughout the year.

One of my favorite quotes says:

"Words kill or words give life--They are either poison or fruit, which one do you choose?"

FABULOUS BROWN GIRLS as we enter into 2010 (not only a NEW year, but also a NEW DECADE) lets make sure we use our words in these kinds of ways.

• PRAISE -- This word literally means to commend. Try commending someone everyday. Thank them for what they are doing, have done, or are going to do.
  
• ENCOURAGE--As BROWN girls, we need to encourage each other daily by giving words of support. You never know what someone may or may not be going through so your encouraging words may be just what they need.
  
• COMPASSION--Be the one to speak confidence to someone who may be going through a difficult time

By doing these three things you are speaking LIFE into someone else!

Over time I have realized that negative energy is like a cancer.. if you are around someone who is always negative you begin to thing and behave that way as well. Instead of using your words to kill or as poison, always use them to give life to others as fruit.

You know the old saying However you want people to treat you, you need to treat people that way. Well, it is an old saying because it is the TRUTH!

So FBG's how did your words impact or affect someone else this year? Were they poisonous or were they fruit to others?

Are You a Honey Bee?

If you are a Fabulous Brown Girl then you definitely are a Honey Bee!

Honey Magazine is having an Ambassador Search for fun, flirty, and fashionable young ladies who want to represent their city at hottest events in your city.

Just send them an email of your photo and why you would want to be a Honey Magazine Ambassador. If you are a better talker than you are a writer put it in a vlog!

You must be 21 and up and available for the various trainings.

To learn more about this FABULOUS gig Click Here

Happy Birthday to Me!!

That's right!! This Fabulous Brown Girl turns 24 years old and I must admit it feels GREAT!! I feel so blessed that I have seen this day 24 times and get to spend it with special people!!

This is my last year in my "early 20s" stage before I hit the mid 20s and then .. knocking 30.

But like fine wine, trust and believe I will be getting better with age!

Have a FABULOUS Day!


HAPPY BIRTDAY 2 YA Stevie Wonder version!!

FBG Spotlight: Vanessa and Angela Simmons

How could you not love them? They could be compared to the Hilton sisters, but they are Fabulous and Brown so that makes them better ;)

As we all know, Angela and Vanessa Simmons are a part of the lineage of Hip Hop royalty seeing as their father was 1/3 of RUN DMC. They were first introduced to us through the popular MTV reality show Run's House that stole our attention and made reality TV a family must see.

Now these ladies are hard core entrepreneurs and socialites on both the East and West Coasts. They took their privileged background and made it work for them where they can now empower young girls through fashion and being positive role models.


I notice that the more these ladies become moguls the more I respect them for what they do and how they carry themselves. They are truly FABULOUS BROWN GIRLS because they still have fun, get their hair done, shop, but understand the importance of being strong business women who acknowledge that they are role models and have younger girls who look up to them. They used their lineage to leverage their careers in the industry and own their own company all while being BFFs and sisters.


Here is a snippet of the interview:

Honey: Describe your style.

A: I don’t really have a set style because I don’t know how I’m going to feel in the morning.

V: You would be a very diverse dresser.

A: But that’s boring. I don’t want to say “diverse dresser.”

V: I made up my whole category. I’m versatile.

A: I don’t like to just go with what’s trendy right now. I’ll go back and pull stuff and say, “This was popular in 1995, I’m putting it on.” I’m all over the place.

Honey: Sneakers or stilettos?

V: Flats. Nice flat boots.

A: At this very moment, I would put on stilettos. That’s why Pastry is making heels.

V: But heels that can also be comfortable.

A: And I love sneakers. I’ve always been a sneaker head. But that’s what drives us to be able to do a line. We’re into that world. We’re into all of it. People often say, “I don’t understand why you don’t have your stuff on all the time.” Because I’m such a fashion-person that I could never limit myself to one lane. What I like to do is go shop and get inspiration to build up new stuff.

Check out their entire interview at Honey Magazine where they discuss their distinct personalities, being moguls, their style, and their relationships.

[Photos taken from Honeymag.com]

In Case You Didn't See It: Christmas at the White House with Oprah

Last night Oprah's prime time special Christmas at the White House aired where Oprah interviewed the president and First Lady to discuss how they are doing Christmas and his current over job as President.

First Lady Michelle looked ever so FABULOUS and chic in her holiday attire and their display of Black Love as a marreid couple is still tremendously inspiring. I love specials like these beacause it reaffirms the emotions of joy and happiness that they are really our PRESIDENT and FIRST LADY adn ti wasn't a dream but infact reality.

IF you did not get a chance to watch this great special FBG has the entire thing in 4 parts. Enjoy!

Congrats to the First Black Princess!!

Fabulous Brown Girl congratulates the first black Disney Princess, Tiana on being number one!

That's right! The new movie "The Princess and the Frog" is the number one movie in the US with with a box office opening weekend of $25 million.

Even though I have yet to had a chance to see it, I will embrace my inner younger FBG and definitely check it out! I am very happy to see that Disney has finally recognized how lucrative the Black audience is and that a princess should come in every color!

Even though it seemed Disney was moving away from full length 2-D animation musical films, most of us 80s babies grew up on these and we are so thrilled to see its return! Thankfully, Disney returned to its roots with a black princess from New Orleans. The movie is ranked up their with Disney 2-D animation greats like Little Mermaid (my personal fav), Alladin, and of course The Lion King and is already receiving great Oscar buzz!

So if you haven't gone to see it yet, take a young FBG and go check out the movie with its all star cast Anika Noni Rose, Oprah, Terrence Howard, and Jenifer Lewis

Here is the movie trailer!

Fabulous Fashion and Style: Holiday Parties!

Tis' the Season for... you guessed it Holiday Parties at work. This is a time when its okay for you and your coworkers to get out of the office and see how your everyone's act outside of the normal work environment.

Well just because you are not at work, doesn't mean that you should forget where you work. It won't be smart to act like you are having a night out on the town with your girls at your corporate holiday party. You still have to carry yourself with some sort of professionalism but still not be as serious as you would be at work

Here are some styles that balance appropriateness for your corporate holiday party while still showing your nightlife style.

• Black Dresses are always a go when you a dressing up for a holiday party. Just make sure they are not too little. Dress it up with fabulous jewelry and sassy shoes and you are ready to go.
  
• Sequins is a way to show your classy party style. Sequins is really hot this season and having different touches of sequins will make you sparkle in a fashion forward way.

Holiday parties are a great way to celebrate the holidays with your coworkers and show your personality, just remember to keep it appropriate and FABULOUS!

These outfits were picked from one of my favorite online boutiques LuLus.com. They're clothes are chic and their prices are perfect for us entry-level FABULOUS BROWN GIRLS.

Fabulous Brown Girl is Growing Strong!

If you have recently discovered Fabulous Brown Girl -- Welcome!! Fabulous Brown Girl has only been around for close to 3 months (we are still an infant) and we are so happy with all the positive and uplifting feed back we have been getting!

If you have recently found out about FBG and you like the content you have been reading so far don't be afraid to spread the word! We promise to keep up our end of the bargain by giving great insight and commentary on what matters to young professional women of color.

Everything from entertainment, social activism, special events, office and networking tips, and the hottest trends to staying FABULOUS! We will continue to try and bring together a positive network and a sisterhood were no one is talked down upon because we can go anywhere and feel negativity vibes!

So BE FABULOUS and SPREAD THE WORD by sharing our blogs with friends on your facebook or twitter page! Its easy and its works!!

Fabulous Brown Girl wants to thank you in advance for the mind blowing support and we promise to keep bringing FABULOUS things your way!

A Little Fabulous Brown Girl Inspiration: Serving Others and Being Fabulous

Happy Monday!

Here at Fabulous Brown Girl our motto is being fabulous means doing more...

A truly fabulous person knows that it is not always about her and her latest trends, men, and socialite lifestyle, but about about recognizing that there are others who can not afford to have what you do and that being fabulous is really about taking time to give back to others.

What service are you committed to? Are you involved with a service oriented non profit organization? Are you involved in a ministry at your church?

These are just a snippet of ways that you can give back and be even more fabulous!

Let Fabulous Brown Girl know what you are doing to give back and TRULY be fabulous!

Remember you are not doing God a favor by serving others, He is the one doing you a favor!

FBG is a Featured Blog on Substance Abuse Counselor

Fabulous Brown Girl has just learned of some great news! Our blog has been named the new feature blog on Substance Abuse Counselor.

The content on our blog has captured the eyes of the director who features blogs and websites on the come up! Seeing how FABULOUS BROWN GIRL only started two months ago, I am truly honored to begin to be recognized by other positive outlets!

This is great news and a reminder that you never know who is watching you, so continue to chase your dreams and follow through with every great opportunity that comes your way! Oh and never forget to STAY FABULOUS!!

GLAMOUR'S Women of the Year Awards 2009

"I AM GRATEFUL TO BE A WOMAN" - Maya Angelou

Last night in NYC a host of FABULOUS BROWN GIRLS were named "Women of the Year" by GLAMOUR Magazine. These awards are given to an eclectic group of outstanding women in different notable fields.

Tyra Banks presented Serena Williams her Women of the Year Award. Her message to young girls out there was "You can do whatever it is that you want to do. The most important belief is self- belief."

Iman presented Rihanna her Women of the Year Award. Iman said that she is even more impressed with Rihanna's dignity and courage than before. She recognizes that she is a role model for young girls through domestic violence.

Maya Angelou (still looking good for 81, despite the rumors)and President Bill Clinton

President Bill Clinton presented the wonderful Maya Angelou with the Lifetime Achievement Award. She told the audience that "women are the rainbows in the clouds"

Kudos to all the Women of the Year recipients! Thank you for showing us what is meand to be a FABULOUS BROWN GIRL. And *SNAPS* to Rihanna for being the definition of GLAMOUR! Because whooooo chillleeeee that dress she wore ain't nothing to play with!! Check out Rihanna's acceptance speech!

Check out more GLAMOUR award pics below.

Serena and Tyra Banks look FAB together in this pic

The Godmother of all FBG's Maya Angelou giving her wonderful acceptance speech

Mama Iman was doing it as always!!! Love her in this dress!!

My new fav, PRECIOUS' Gabby S.

Brit Beauty Estelle performed

Another one of my fav FBG's Keri Washington was there

FBG Style Watch: Thigh High Boots for the Winter

Now it is not enough for boots to come to the calf any more or even to the knee. The new must have fall/winter footwear is Thigh high boots. These boots that are normally called hooker boots are in style now and can be seen worn by fabulous brown girls trying to stay warm and chic this winter.

There is definitely something sext about a boot that covers almost your entire leg.


This Fabulous Brown Girl would not normally be so bold, but I might give these style a try. Plus its a definite plus to keep you warm and bundled up.

Check out some of your favorites rocking these boots

Glam It Up!! - FBG Sotlight: Purple Lab Products

Are you obsessed with glam like we are ?! Don't feel bad, it's not a bad thing! You can never care too much about your appearance and make sure you look your best and carry yourself in that same manner..

Fabulous Brown Girl loves to shares all things chic with you... so check out this new line we came across called Purple Lab NYC. They are a fresh, new chic beauty line that target young professional trendy women like ourselves!

Their debut product is a lip gloss called "Huge Lips Skinny Hips". I think the name is so cute and it is an automatic attention getter!

Purple Lab is beginning as a lip gloss line and will transform into a lifestyle line of different fashion and beauty must haves!

So for all my girly girl, fashion forward, trendy, and glamorized Fabulous Brown Girls out there be on the look out for this great new line!

Check out this great video to learn more about the cute shades of "Huge Lips Skinny Hips"

GOOD HAIR MOVIE PREMIERE and NIA LONG!

Here are a few pictures of the GOOD HAIR movie premiere!! I absolutely can not wait to see this documentary with my girlfriends! And I know my FABULOUS BROWN GIRLS will be checking it out as well!!

Nia Long

Salt-n-Pepa

Ashanti

Actress Nia Long is a FABULOUS BROWN GIRL who is extremely talented and beautiful. She has been in the business for a very long time and still commands respect from her peers in the industry. She did a lot to help with the making of the GOOD HAIR documentary! Check her out in October's issue of Essence Magazine.


Photos were obtained from theybf.com and essence.com

FBG Turns One Month Today!!

Today marks the one month anniversary of FABULOUS BROWN GIRL (my baby is growing up yall!! lol) I started this blog just as an outlet on what I feel young women like me want to talk about. It does not always focus on superficial or materials things. Fabulous Brown Girls are Stylish, Sophisticated, and Savvy! We are the total package: we look fly, demand respect, and can hold our own in any circumstance!!

So FBG wants to give a BIG Thank You to those of you who keep checking us out and showing us love!! I really do appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. Please continue to look out for hot topics and different features that will make u smile, think, and laugh. Tell your friends to check FBG out too!! Leave comments and start discussions because its all for you FAB BROWN GIRLS.. Smooches

FBG Loves Ya!!

Welcome to Fabulous Brown Girl

What is a FABULOUS BROWN GIRL?

She is a woman of color who knows that being fabulous means so much more than shopping, clubbing, and being stalked by every man (single or taken) in the street. She knows that truly being fabulous means doing more than the average women. She is confident, sassy, socially aware, opinionated, and philanthropic. She wants to be financially literate and eco-friendly all while stopping traffic and hitting up upscale social and networking events. This blog will cover a lot of different issues that I feel are important for a young, urban, professional woman like myself.

• Career Development


• Social Awareness


• Women Empowerment/Motivational Affirmations


• Urban Celebrities


• Financial Literacy


• Eco-Friendliness/ Going "GREEN"


• Philanthropy/ NON Profit/ Charities


• Beauty/ Hair Tips and Tricks


• Being FAB on an entry-level budget


• ... and much more
  

I will post to this blog as often as I can to share interesting links and videos to keep everyone up to date with current events as well as offer encouraging words to make sure we are striving to be as "fabulous" as we can.

The FABULOUS BROWN GIRL revolution will not be televised so stay locked in to get it all!!